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Avoid your 'emotional tipping point'

Avoid your ’emotional tipping point’

By in behaviour, Crisis, decision making, Emotional Intelligence, Performance, resilience
8 months ago
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Summary: We all have ’emotional tipping points’ where we shift from a specific issue to having a globalised ‘problem’. Everyone’s tipping point and how they get there is entirely unique. There is a lot we can do to improve our lives by managing our ‘tipping points’ and how we allow things to build up to them. Emotional tipping points: How do you determine how much time you have to spend worrying about things that haven’t happened before you allow yourself to tip over into anxiety? How many times or how strongly must your borders be crossed before you kick off a full blown bout of anger or rage? How many times do you have to feel sad before you allow yourself to tip over into calling yourself depressed? If we want to break the cycle of emotions leading to powerful and unhelpful feelings and labels beyond the tipping point there

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Making resilience real

By in change, Coaching, culture, Customer focus, decision making, Performance, resilience
1 year ago
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In times of extreme change – as we have seen in 2020 – resilience becomes a key property of individuals, teams, and organisations that want to not only survive, but to thrive. Resilience is often used to describe an ‘ability to cope’ – like a spring that bends under pressure that then ‘snaps back’ when the pressure is released. As we have learned from the accelerated and amplified change of 2020 and the COVID pandemic, not everything that changes ‘snaps back’ – which means that the change pressure doesn’t go away, it remains in place and may even get greater. Consider your business circumstance through the pandemic, and in particular what has changed for your customers: What changes have occurred that will now remain as the new ‘normal’? What changes occurred that will ‘snap back’ to the way they were when the change pressure is removed? What changes have been

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Stress is inevitable – how you respond to it is not

By in behaviour, Emotional Intelligence, Performance
6 years ago
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Stress is inevitable, but can it enhance performance or does it always harm us? Stress is reported as one of the significant ‘modern diseases’. People are reporting feeling so ’stressed’ from their work and private lives that it making them physically and psychologically ill. When you consider performance, stress plays a massive role in dragging people out of their peak performance states into less resourceful ones. Stress is almost contagious, with people being influenced by stress that others experience to become stressed themselves. Have we created a world where stress is inevitable, and we are all just victims of our circumstance – or is there more to stress, and can we do more than just manage it? What is stress? Stress is the body’s response to being forced to operate outside its comfort zone. When we are in our comfort zone, we have the belief and expectation that we can

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Leadership in the dark – leading in tough times

By in Crisis, culture, Leadership, Performance, teams
7 years ago
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When things are going well, leadership can be a joy. The conversation is mostly about enhancing performance, how to build people into their capacity and drive success. We see those we lead reach for their potential and grow personally and professionally. No wonder people aspire to leadership. But it is not always like that. There are times of crisis, tragedy and difficulty which require outstanding leadership to manage. Leadership will stop being fun, but it never stops being critically important. In leadership programs the focus is heavily upon how an individual can be a great leader, and creating extraordinary success. Often the ‘dark side’ of leadership is either glossed over or simply ignored. It is not fun, or sexy, to lead at such times, and the importance of it is rarely reflected upon. Sometimes the best that leadership can offer is just to help others cope, to get them through

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The 8 things which will create a perfect storm in your business

By in change, Crisis, culture, Customer focus, engagement, Leadership, Performance, Strategy, teams
7 years ago
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So you have done the company survey, or listened by the coffee machine.  It seems like the jungle drums are beating, and the natives are restless.  The executive team gets together and asks themselves “How did we get like this?”, and wonder at the emerging signs that the culture and engagement strategies have failed. What organisations often find is that the company is not living its stated values, the staff are hardly engaged and the culture has devolved to something just more civil than a cage fight.  And you wondered where your performance had gone? Does this sound familiar?  Too often issues with engagement and culture are identified after these problems are having a real impact on the business and its results.  So many organisations find themselves in trouble and wonder both how they got there, and how to get themselves out. Unfortunately, many organisations find themselves in the perfect

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Why most sales reps aren’t built to perform

By in business development, Coaching, Customer focus, Customer Service, Performance, resilience, Sales and Marketing, Strategy
7 years ago
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Our customers today have access to overwhelming volumes of information, have so many choices and are ever more discerning.  The ability for our customers to truly understand what we can offer them can simply be lost in the white noise. How we connect to customers and sell them our purpose, our values and our offerings can be critical in cutting through this white noise and drive business success.  Great sales people are therefore a prerequisite of success – and you need them right across your business. As organisations become more social and customer centric, every person within the organisation not only becomes a brand ambassador, but a ‘salesperson’ of the organisation, and for the organisation, to its customers.  The old days of salespeople on the ‘outside’ and everyone else huddled within are definitely gone. So what really makes a great salesperson? If you had to identify the profile that would

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The Path Back – 5 Steps to Happiness in Leadership

By in Coaching, Leadership, resilience
7 years ago
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Life provides us with challenges. Sometimes we suffer circumstances that leave us in a bad space. We may have lost a loved one, come to the end of a relationship, lost a job or had a major change. The only truth is that you cannot control what happens to you, only what you do about it. Every day we can be exposed to bad experiences. Every day we can suffer minor or major set-backs and traumas. The key to getting beyond these circumstances is to be aware that you can, and apply these five quick lessons from positive psychology to help you get back to your best. When I am coaching executives, I see that this group are often suffering and stuck, and searching for a path ‘back’ to feeling good and high performance. Here are 5 steps that they can take on this path: Step 1: Purpose. Having a

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Melbourne’s Chief Resilience Officer: A big step and big challenges

By in change, Crisis, Leadership, News, resilience, Strategy
7 years ago
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We can build resilience at a personal level, in teams, organisations and communities.  I applaud the City of Melbourne for seeing the importance of resilience, and implementing the role of ‘Chief Resilience Officer’, supported as part of the 100 Resilient Cities Project of the Rockerfeller Foundation. I therefore read with interest the article in the Age (http://www.theage.com.au/victoria/four-big-problems-for-melbournes-478088-chief-resilience-officer-20140730-zyf3p.html) talking about the challenges that Melbourne’s incoming ‘Chief Resilience Officer’ will face. In fact, the challenges are at least three times bigger than what is mentioned in the article. Firstly, the article really only covers preparation and management of crisis scenarios that impact upon the city.  Of course, the role of the Chief Resilience officer must encourage proper planning and preparation for crisis and stress events, but this is just the start. For Melbourne as a city, as a community, and a network of businesses and organisations, the new Chief Resilience Officer will

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Deciding to play a bigger game

By in change, Coaching, Leadership, Performance, resilience, Strategy
7 years ago
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When do you take the step to play your ‘bigger game’? – You know, the one free of the fears and habits that hold you back from what is really possible.   For most people, it is a realisation that the current way you are doing things is not enough any more.  Something drives us to see that things have to change if we are going to get a different- better- outcome. Because they say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome.  Whilst as we keep doing what we have always done, we will only get what we have always gotten. The realisation that its time to play a new game often emerges because something happens- either something in you changes, or something external to you changes- and you realise that you are not in the bigger game any more. Perhaps it

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Building resilience in our communities

By in change, Coaching, Crisis, culture, Leadership, resilience, Strategy
7 years ago
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Our world seems to be getting faster and faster, with more and more stress and pressure being applied to us all.  With so much stress – and the continuing emergence of crisis – how do we build resilience in our communities, so that together we can face the bigger pressures and help each other?  How do we help our communities to ‘spring back’ or ‘spring forward’ with resilience in response to stress or change? In previous posts, I have discussed resilience in individuals, teams and organisations.  However, resilience spreads beyond the ‘working world’ into the broader communities in which we exist.  We can read in the newspapers about how we are constantly under threat – weather, fire, floods, changes in economic conditions, unemployment, food, water and climate issues, war, terrorism, economic downturn and technological change. Our circumstances are always changing, and it seems that are always under constant stress (and

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Phil Owens – Founder of The Bigger Game

Phil is one of Australia’s leading performance and leadership specialists. He honed his skills working with executives and leaders around the world, coaching and consulting in over 30 countries, from entrepreneurial start-ups to boards of multi-billion dollar businesses.

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